As technology continues to evolve, social media has become an important way for people to enhance their social relationships. Once children enter their teenage years, they may seek peer acceptance and could become engrossed in social media to build their social circles. As parents, are you concerned that your child might make bad friends online or even face bullying? In this issue, we will introduce the appropriate attitudes for children using social media, helping them to protect themselves in the online world.
Enhancing Children's Self-Awareness
- Protecting Personal Information:
When children first engage with the internet, they may not understand the concept of a "digital footprint." They should know that their browsing history, uploaded photos, and comments may not be completely deleted and could remain online permanently. We can remind them to avoid sharing personal information publicly online, such as their name, address, and phone number, and to refrain from accepting friend requests and messages from strangers.
- Identifying Cyberbullying:
We should help children understand the forms of cyberbullying, such as mocking friends through messages or publicly sharing personal information. Using news cases as examples can encourage children to reflect on the consequences of cyberbullying. If children do not understand what constitutes "bullying," they might inadvertently participate or even get caught up in it. This helps them empathize with the feelings of those being bullied and fosters a sense of empathy, preventing them from getting involved.
- Reporting Online Crises:
When children encounter suspicious behavior, we should teach them to seek help proactively by informing parents and teachers promptly to get appropriate assistance. How can we identify cyberbullying early? Parents can be alert to common signs of cyberbullying to take preventive measures!
If Your Child Unfortunately Faces an Online Crisis, How Should Parents Accompany Them?
- Address Emotions First, Then Issues:
When children face difficulties, it can be a test for the parent-child relationship. Should parents express their deep love with harsh criticism? We must remember that children have emotions after an event occurs—such as anxiety, confusion, and anger. Whether adults or children, understanding their feelings can help ease emotions and allow for rational consideration of advice. If we start by blaming the child, it might lead to unnecessary conflicts and damage the relationship.
- Identifying Appropriate Support Networks:
We may not be experts in solving related problems, so we should identify suitable support networks, including school counselors, social workers, and class teachers, to provide children with appropriate psychological support after incidents occur. Hong Kong Education City recommends the "5S Digital Parent Ambassador Program 2022/23" online seminar SHARE with Care"SHARE with Care which allows parents to learn communication strategies from experienced social workers and walk alongside their children in the online world.
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